Choosing the right therapist can be a difficult and confusing process. Start by looking at the therapist's expertise, education and training. Decide if these trainings are relevant to your situation or problem. Some individuals find it more comforting to work with therapists who have a similar background as theirs (eg, gender, ethnicity, sexual orientation, etc.). Once you meet with the therapist, wisdom, empathy, compassion and character are all attributes you'll want to look for. Because it takes time to build a therapeutic relationship, we recommend taking 3-4 sessions to get to know your therapist.